but msg was out of town, and that meant it was just us ladyams (i hope sasha appreciates me smooshing "lady" and "yams" together like that), and we managed not to miss him too bad.
a lot of pretty low-key fun. hanging out, giving or getting foot rubs (possibly other kinds of rubs too), chatting. aers and elle did a lot of cuddly whispering and then went in the other room and did some cuddly louder things a few times too.
akane told me and sash and hettie some of the non-funny stories about her old bad boyfriends, and we sympathized with her a lot (even though hettie's the only one of the three of us who ever had a different boyfriend). it was a good bonding kinda talk, and she did soooo much expression of excessive gratitude afterwards. (we may have been drinking a bit too.)
when our guy got home, i told him he needed to pay attention to how happy the weekend had made us all (even though we def missed him at least a few times too), and remember that not all of what he needs to do for us is actually him doing things for us. some of it is just giving us space to be us.
and then being a good listener when he gets back!
he likes that we're our own people, you know?
it's good for all of us when we get a chance to have that really shine.
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